1. Is it one-sided to regard it as a sex doll?
For users, there is a kind of stigmatization of “sex doll”, as if he has a doll, he is a pervert. Sometimes users don’t have sex with it, they even eat and hug with it, and call it “sex doll” as if it is dirty. Users need to be euphemistic and implicit. In fact, in my opinion, this view is too narrow for the definition and understanding of sex, and we have to extend the definition of sex.
2. What is the difference between owning a silicone doll and other sex toys?
Users have higher demands and requirements for sexual satisfaction, they know what they want and take care of their desires better.
Is owning a silicone doll just out of the need for companionship and intimacy?
Silicone dolls are a substitute for real life and a satisfaction. In fact, it is quite similar to the love psychology, but it is more inclined to possess and control a person. He may have suffered setbacks in real life, it is difficult to establish a better real relationship, or some of his psychological needs can not be met in reality, so in a virtual world, to satisfy this part of the fantasy.
Silicone dolls have another feature. They are at their mercy and cannot be resisted. The owner has a control over the doll, which is a bit like an SM (somasochism) plot. Some people may not be able to express their desires with a real partner, so he gets satisfaction from the doll.
Of course, some users will have a mentality of “Don’t talk about sex with me, I think it’s dirty, I just want to be beautiful”. But in our opinion, sex is not dirty, whether you have sex or not, that is your choice.
Users will treat dolls as their girlfriends, wives, deceased wives, and daughters. Is it possible for a doll to replace a real person emotionally?
3. A doll cannot replace a real person, but it can fulfill part of the emotional satisfaction, repair the pain, repair the loss, and satisfy part of the psychological desire.
There is feedback between people’s true emotions, that is, I have emotions for you, and you have emotions for me. A simulation doll cannot feedback its emotions, or that the feedback of emotions is only imagined by the user.
For example, if I buy a dress for my daughter, my daughter may appear cold or happy. She will say, “Dad, I don’t like this dress.” But the doll can never have such feedback.
4. The real emotions have power in people and will affect people and change them. In real life, people have a lot of helplessness and incompetence. Imagination can of course bring people pleasure. It creates a safe zone for people to relax and play. But that is always just one’s own world, not real feedback from the outside world.
5. When people have real intimacy, why do they still need silicone dolls?
True intimacy is equal to each other and autonomous. On the one hand, silicone dolls are also a manifestation of the desire to control in sexual relations, and the uncontrollability of real people is stronger.
Data surveys show that the vast majority of men still masturbate after marriage. When you and your partner cannot reach an agreement on sex and emotion through negotiation, they need to be satisfied through other means.
6. What kind of psychological process do women who accept their partners have silicone dolls generally go through?
A: Many women will have the mentality of confronting their husband’s mistress, “silicone doll defeated me” or “I have no charm”, this kind of frustration will appear, but it is not necessary.
Silicone dolls are just an external thing, but we can use silicone dolls as mirrors to understand the emotional relationship between the two parties, communicate with partners, why one needs silicone dolls, and what are the emotional problems of the two people.
7. Do women need silicone dolls?
Usually women’s emotions and emotions are more acute and complex. They feel that emotion and sex are tied together, and they need someone to love them. It is difficult for silicone dolls to provide them with spiritual love. Men’s sexual satisfaction is relatively simple and relatively straightforward. Of course, this is a personal choice, and it has something to do with the individual’s cultural education and lifestyle.
8. How should the outside world view the user group of silicone dolls?
Since it is a group, others must have a certain stereotype of them. The whole society and culture is in a state of not accepting silicone dolls, and even many people think this is a kind of abnormality.
Silicone dolls are related to sex and belong to privacy, and to a certain extent meet people’s needs for sex, there is a reasonable place for it to exist. If it does not affect the life and work of the individual, and does not harm the society, it is good not to interfere. If you have the ability, you need to be more friendly, understanding, and supportive.
Post time: Oct-18-2021